It's probably a real bad idea for me to comment based on a less than five minute conversation, eh? But hey, I never said I was smart.

You come across as polite, attractive, and charming, but also a little bit intimdating. I got the feeling you weren't really interested in chatting - which is okay, really. I'm very poor at small-talk and I'm notorious for sending mixed signals myself.

But you know what else? I liked you and I'd not hesitate to talk to you again should I see you someplace. ;)

Bad idea? Never.

It's that intimidating part that I'm trying to get a handle on. What came across that way, or made it seem that way?

Oh boy. I have no business speculating! But okay, y'twisted my arm. Ha.

You seem like someone that holds his cards close to the vest, i.e., you take your time in a situation to size up the climate and the people you're exposed to before investing yourself.

And this isn't a bad thing, mind you. I think it's quite wise.

Also, you're kinda tall. And I'm really short.

Also, your hair and beard, which while they're both quite sexy, to a silly housewife like me it sends an "out of your social timbre" message. Then again, I'm admittedly paranoid about such things.

On the whole, as I said a few days ago, I do find you very charming!

Hmmm...very interesting.

Well, I do tend to size things up, and admittedly I overanalyze things, so you are on the money there. Tall? True...*G* I may have to work around the hair and beard, cause I love them.

"Out of your social timbre"? How so?

By all means, do keep the hair and beard!!! Heh.

You look um, kind of, er. Hell, I don't know the word! I don't want to say goth but sort of something like that? I sound like an idiot now. But see, this is coming from a housewife. Knocking back a few drinks at Concrete Blonde is as wild as I get, and not something I do more than once every couple of years. You, on the other hand, you looked very much in your element. And I mean that as a compliment.

Housewife, schmousewife...you're already cooler by the day...*G*. And I don't think it's idiotic to be able to explain yourself..that's admirable.

OK, see, THIS makes sense to me...and I like it. It also puts a bit of a spin on some things I got from others, and meshes with them nicely.

Oh, and I was most DEFINITELY in my element. There are 2 bands, out of the huge number that I worship, that are tried in my mind for number one...Concrete Blonde is one of them.

i think you come accross as a kick ass sexy motherfucker ... but .. that's just me :P

I can deal with that!

But welcome thoughts.

We want to come see you!!!

Well, if I had a car I trustd on the roads, I'd come get y'all...I'm bored. But the taillight being out is what screwed Eric in the first place...not sure I trust it...but gonna fiox that situation tomorrow.

But hey, if you can find any ride out hre, that would be the sweetest pie...you know you can crash here, and i can drive you back in daylight tomorrow, or something...

Possiblee! We shall werk on eet.

That would be sweet...call me if things go well.

Okie dokie...

You are compassionate, sweet, good natured, lovable, considerate, caring, giving, honest and so many more things that I could fill the page with praise.

Intimidating? At first, yes, but I know you now. Lot's of people pay 'lip service' just to pass the time or to seem 'cool' or endearing or a plethora of other inane things, you are who you are, it's that simple.

I had a bunch more to say, but I gotcha on messenger...two-way-street hon. Remember that.

*hugs*

Could never forget, my friend. And thank you for that conversation, I needed that. It helped a lot. Not sure what i am gonna do about it, but I have an idea...just gotta put it into action.

If you need to bounce your ideas off me, I'll always be your sounding board, and I'll tell it like I see it...but you know that already.

Anywhere, anytime, you got it.

giving, sharing, loving, considerate, kind, and over all worshiped as a grand friend and superhero by this messy little gurl.

*G*...I'm proud to be your friend, my dear, you know that? And, funny, that description fits my thoughts on you...'cept I'm not a gurl. ;)

Well, I think you already know...


at least I hope so... if not - I will tell you...

a very kind, funny, sweet guy - the incredible eyes and smile are just an added bonus.

I look forward to getting to spend more than 10 minutes with you :)

I've unfortunately not hung out with you in person, but you are absolutely marvy as far as I know you through LJ. I echo others' responses in that you seem a warm, generous and caring person who actively defends those you love and has a very hip and secure grip on things. I personally don't find you intimidating, rather I find you very approachable and open. Doesn't mean I'd want to piss you off or hurt you, but that's not an intimidation issue as much as the simple fact that I dig you. ;)

Hmmm...OK, I can dig that. Thank you.