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02 February 2002 @ 05:15 pm
Nothing and Nobody  
Just relaxing at the house. I got Eric's car out of impound, so at least I have a car for now. I have an invite to the Fantasy Unlimited Fashion Show tonight, I'm on the guest list, but I don't think I'll be going. No one that I know is gonna be in it that I know of.

Need to talk to some people. I'm wondering how I am seen, how I come off...based on some things that have been said in the past, and a bit of a potential revelation I had the other night...anyone that has talked to me, vaguely knows me, feel free to answer: How do I come across to you? I'm completely serious, I want to know, good and bad...
 
 
Current Mood: curiouscurious
Current Music: Stray Cats - Stray cat Strut
 
 
skiterlady on February 2nd, 2002 05:48 pm (UTC)

It's probably a real bad idea for me to comment based on a less than five minute conversation, eh? But hey, I never said I was smart.

You come across as polite, attractive, and charming, but also a little bit intimdating. I got the feeling you weren't really interested in chatting - which is okay, really. I'm very poor at small-talk and I'm notorious for sending mixed signals myself.

But you know what else? I liked you and I'd not hesitate to talk to you again should I see you someplace. ;)
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 2nd, 2002 06:42 pm (UTC)
Bad idea? Never.

It's that intimidating part that I'm trying to get a handle on. What came across that way, or made it seem that way?
skiterlady on February 4th, 2002 11:36 am (UTC)

Oh boy. I have no business speculating! But okay, y'twisted my arm. Ha.

You seem like someone that holds his cards close to the vest, i.e., you take your time in a situation to size up the climate and the people you're exposed to before investing yourself.

And this isn't a bad thing, mind you. I think it's quite wise.

Also, you're kinda tall. And I'm really short.

Also, your hair and beard, which while they're both quite sexy, to a silly housewife like me it sends an "out of your social timbre" message. Then again, I'm admittedly paranoid about such things.

On the whole, as I said a few days ago, I do find you very charming!
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 4th, 2002 11:54 am (UTC)
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Hmmm...very interesting.

Well, I do tend to size things up, and admittedly I overanalyze things, so you are on the money there. Tall? True...*G* I may have to work around the hair and beard, cause I love them.

"Out of your social timbre"? How so?
skiterlady on February 4th, 2002 12:41 pm (UTC)

By all means, do keep the hair and beard!!! Heh.

You look um, kind of, er. Hell, I don't know the word! I don't want to say goth but sort of something like that? I sound like an idiot now. But see, this is coming from a housewife. Knocking back a few drinks at Concrete Blonde is as wild as I get, and not something I do more than once every couple of years. You, on the other hand, you looked very much in your element. And I mean that as a compliment.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 4th, 2002 12:47 pm (UTC)
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Housewife, schmousewife...you're already cooler by the day...*G*. And I don't think it's idiotic to be able to explain yourself..that's admirable.

OK, see, THIS makes sense to me...and I like it. It also puts a bit of a spin on some things I got from others, and meshes with them nicely.

Oh, and I was most DEFINITELY in my element. There are 2 bands, out of the huge number that I worship, that are tried in my mind for number one...Concrete Blonde is one of them.

Gloryhole Galsquishybear on February 2nd, 2002 06:34 pm (UTC)
i think you come accross as a kick ass sexy motherfucker ... but .. that's just me :P
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 2nd, 2002 07:06 pm (UTC)
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I can deal with that!
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God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 2nd, 2002 07:00 pm (UTC)
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But welcome thoughts.
Drunk on immorality, valium and cherry winescurvykat on February 2nd, 2002 07:12 pm (UTC)
We want to come see you!!!
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 2nd, 2002 07:28 pm (UTC)
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Well, if I had a car I trustd on the roads, I'd come get y'all...I'm bored. But the taillight being out is what screwed Eric in the first place...not sure I trust it...but gonna fiox that situation tomorrow.

But hey, if you can find any ride out hre, that would be the sweetest pie...you know you can crash here, and i can drive you back in daylight tomorrow, or something...
Drunk on immorality, valium and cherry winescurvykat on February 2nd, 2002 07:28 pm (UTC)
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Possiblee! We shall werk on eet.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 2nd, 2002 07:31 pm (UTC)
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That would be sweet...call me if things go well.
Drunk on immorality, valium and cherry winescurvykat on February 2nd, 2002 07:32 pm (UTC)
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Okie dokie...
*Cyn*: Lookiecenobitten on February 2nd, 2002 07:08 pm (UTC)
You are compassionate, sweet, good natured, lovable, considerate, caring, giving, honest and so many more things that I could fill the page with praise.

Intimidating? At first, yes, but I know you now. Lot's of people pay 'lip service' just to pass the time or to seem 'cool' or endearing or a plethora of other inane things, you are who you are, it's that simple.

I had a bunch more to say, but I gotcha on messenger...two-way-street hon. Remember that.

*hugs*
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 2nd, 2002 07:11 pm (UTC)
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Could never forget, my friend. And thank you for that conversation, I needed that. It helped a lot. Not sure what i am gonna do about it, but I have an idea...just gotta put it into action.
*Cyn*cenobitten on February 3rd, 2002 05:19 am (UTC)
If you need to bounce your ideas off me, I'll always be your sounding board, and I'll tell it like I see it...but you know that already.

Anywhere, anytime, you got it.
zombiedip on February 2nd, 2002 08:52 pm (UTC)
giving, sharing, loving, considerate, kind, and over all worshiped as a grand friend and superhero by this messy little gurl.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Roll: powerplantarchmage on February 3rd, 2002 11:26 am (UTC)
*G*...I'm proud to be your friend, my dear, you know that? And, funny, that description fits my thoughts on you...'cept I'm not a gurl. ;)
hazeleyedgal_25 on February 3rd, 2002 06:09 pm (UTC)
Well, I think you already know...


at least I hope so... if not - I will tell you...

a very kind, funny, sweet guy - the incredible eyes and smile are just an added bonus.

I look forward to getting to spend more than 10 minutes with you :)
Kendall: funkothiym on February 4th, 2002 08:34 am (UTC)

I've unfortunately not hung out with you in person, but you are absolutely marvy as far as I know you through LJ. I echo others' responses in that you seem a warm, generous and caring person who actively defends those you love and has a very hip and secure grip on things. I personally don't find you intimidating, rather I find you very approachable and open. Doesn't mean I'd want to piss you off or hurt you, but that's not an intimidation issue as much as the simple fact that I dig you. ;)
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 4th, 2002 10:03 am (UTC)
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Hmmm...OK, I can dig that. Thank you.