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17 February 2002 @ 09:28 am
RIP Cynthia  
Confirmed. I just got off the phone with Cyn's husband Mark.



Valentine's Day, they were supposed to go to a place called "Numbers" or something and meet up with some others, but apparently Cyn was feeling very out of place, so they left. The two of them had dinner, did a little shopping, basically had a pleasant evening together, and fell asleep that night, curled up together, watching TV.

About 4am, Mark awoke, noticing that the bed felt wet. He went to wake Cyn up to ask what had spilled (Cyn was a very light sleeper), and discovered that she had passed away. Initial coroner's report says heart failure, but the full results aren't in yet. He says he will call me and let me know when he knows what they are. She went in her sleep, peacefully...we should all be so lucky.

Cyn was a very good friend to me. Many a day was spent in pouring out my problems to her, knowing that she would not give me platitudes or sugar-coating, but instead would be straight with me, giving me the real deal. Many another day was spent with me doing the same for her. She was my spirit sister, and we had connected on a deeper level than merely friends. I love her deeply, and my heart is cracked open with her loss. She will continue to live in my soul until such time as I see her again on the other side.

The family will have a small memorial/remembrance service on Wednesday. I ask you to join me in thoughts and prayers, and let them join with Cyn's family's own prayers.

I miss you already Cyn. Wherever you are, my thoughts are with you...take care of yourself. We'll meet again...and if I know you, you'd have wanted to be remembered just like this...

 
 
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Gloryhole Gal: poutsquishybear on February 17th, 2002 10:08 am (UTC)
:-( *smooch*
magikgrrl on February 17th, 2002 10:25 am (UTC)
:( Loss is so hard.
Artist Shannon Kringenshannonkringen on February 17th, 2002 10:52 am (UTC)
how very sad. may cyn rest in peace. it's true she went in her sleep cuddled up with her husband. that is a beautiful way to drift out of the body. i send you a hug- peace be with you and all of cyn's loved ones.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 10:54 am (UTC)
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Thank you, my friend...that means a lot.
~Jojo~jobunches on February 17th, 2002 10:59 am (UTC)
Sorry about your loss. Peace be with you all!
Artist Shannon Kringenshannonkringen on February 17th, 2002 11:01 am (UTC)
i just read part of cyn's journal where she talks about the man close to her like a father who passed away from cancer and about her mother passing away 4 years ago- and it seems so haunting- like it was her time to pass away too maybe and be without a body anymore and will the souls? it happened so it must have been meant to be...cyn is free now. it's all of her friends/family and loved ones who have the grieving to go through...i hope my words help you in some way.
peace to you, shannon
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 11:04 am (UTC)
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Could be...could be.
daydreams & scribbles: gwendragon_moon on February 17th, 2002 11:06 am (UTC)
*hugs* I'm so sorry for you for losing such a good friend, and for her poor husband. My thoughts are with you and her family.
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God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 12:54 pm (UTC)
Thank you, doll. I appreciate that.
violetvixen on February 17th, 2002 11:43 am (UTC)
*silent hugs*
Wolfyewolfye on February 17th, 2002 12:46 pm (UTC)

Hey d00d, please accept my sincerest condolences for your loss. She sounds like she was a wonderful person.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 12:49 pm (UTC)
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She was. Easily one of the finest human beings I had the pleasure to know, and a very dear friend. Thanks, bro'.
Elitist Bitchcheshie on February 17th, 2002 12:51 pm (UTC)
A wonderful post in remembrance of a wonderful woman.

Although I didn't know her well at all, she was special and must have fulfilled her place in the order of things here on earth.
I hold you, her and her family in my thoughts.
I'm sorry for your loss.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 12:53 pm (UTC)
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Thank you...she is sorely missed.
NightMaven*): FlyMavennightmaven on February 17th, 2002 01:14 pm (UTC)
~Fare Thee Well... ***Cindi***
Frank... I can't add anything more other than ditto. I remember us just watching the recent Rams games live on chat on MSN. And our chats... her postings... this is the pits. Again, thanx for chatting with me today. She was a good friend and just a s00per-d00per Lady. This is the partt of life that so sux---finding a gem..and then losing it again. :(

~Scott
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 01:18 pm (UTC)
Re: ~Fare Thee Well... ***Cindi***
Quite.
The Cynic: The Cynicdiscordian on February 17th, 2002 01:20 pm (UTC)
She and I have just recently started talking, and only on LJ, but I could already understand why you were so fond of her. She will be dearly missed, even by those of us who barely knew her.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 01:32 pm (UTC)
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Very...thank you.
baphometsangel on February 17th, 2002 01:21 pm (UTC)
I dont know you or her that well.

I just recently came into contact with her and knew she was an amazing person.

I'm sorry for your loss.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 01:33 pm (UTC)
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She was very special. Thank you...it is appreciated.
RavenLaceravenlace on February 17th, 2002 02:58 pm (UTC)
in times like these there are no words that can either ease or comfort or erase, not that any would want to erase. however you know whats in my heart. i'm here fir ya man as always.
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Rollarchmage on February 17th, 2002 03:00 pm (UTC)
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I do know, and I appreciate it.
wesa on February 17th, 2002 05:08 pm (UTC)

i dont know what to say. kind of stunned.