God of Thunder and Rock'n'Roll (archmage) wrote,
God of Thunder and Rock'n'Roll

Be Happy, Dammit.

You know, life's too damn short to spend it with someone that only makes you happy half (or less than half!) the time. Just because "when things are OK, it's good" is no reason why you should just sit there and take it the rest of the time. It takes both of you. Yes, it's noble and a good thing to try and make things work, and I advocate that...but if you BOTH aren't/can't/won't do it, then you aren't in the right relationship. Let it go, do what you have to do, and move on.

And don't start in on "I've invested too much in this to just walk away"...if this was any other investment, you'd realize it was just a money pit and pull out before it got worse. Is your emotional sanity worth less?

At least three people are hearing this from me, these days. I dunno why this is so hard to understand. (Yes, some of them are working on it. Just sayin'.)

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