OK, seriously...do you need a label to say who you fuck? Is there some reason we can't all just enjoy the physical activities of sex and intimacy with whomever we enjoy and be good at that? Does it really matter who that might be, or what gender they are compared to you, or what particular actions you enjoy with the partner of your choice?

Sakes alive, it's like, every day, I see some new niche term for sex, gender, or orientation...and all I can think is "do we need this?" just fuck who you want to fuck and both of you have fun (within the limits of consent, of course).

It'd be really great for the population to stop being hung up on this. For us to be able to just say "hey, you know what, I think you're attractive. I think it'd be a helluva lot of fun to roll in the hay (or wherever) with you" and just get a "yeah, that'd be fun" or "no, but thanks for asking" answer with neither party being angry, hurt, offended, wigged out, or whatever, still just as close as before, with the same (low) level of seriousness as "here, taste this", "can I borrow a smoke", "I'm going to the store, wanna go with?", or "join our team or basketball".

Fucking sexual hang-ups. Would be so much easier if we could all stop being so freaked out by it. I'd love to tell you all to try it, just once, and see how liberating it can be, but I doubt seriously that most people would or could...and those that would or could are probably going to tend to get a bad reaction. the few left over that would/could and would get a good reaction, well, most of them are asking an easy target (swinging clubs, significant other, etc).