Di's ex originally said that he did not want me to meet their son until he had a chance to meet me first. I can respect that, since I wouldn't want my son living with someone that I hadn't verified wasn't some kind of psycho. I had agreed to be out of the house on the nights that Erik was there, until such time as we could arrange a meet-and-greet.
Now, however, he has decided that not only does he not wanna meet me, he NEVER wants to meet me, afraid that it could turn into a "bad scene". Well, I think that is just childish and foolish. It just shows what a whiny baby he is being. He has no reason to think it would be bad, unless HE was gonna start something. Either way, it means I don'
t have to be out of my own home.
Of course, keep in mind that this is the same guy who claimed that Di woudl not be welcome at his mother's house anymore (but she has no problems there at all) and that Erik said he would "run away" if anyone else moved into the house (which, when she asked him his feelings, etc., he responded only that he was a little nervous but looked forward to meeting me).
Sounds like someone is living in a fantasy world...but that's OK< he's spending so much time there, I'm sure they know him well.
