Hell is...
...hating something intensely, something that is important to you and what you do, and discovering/knowing that out of the two main forums you have for discussing it, one is against you in the matter, continues to miss the point you are making, ignores your attempts to clarify the issue, and then gets even worse about the problem...and the other doesn't know what you are talking about, and wouldn't care anyway.
Fuckin' Hell.